I like Tomi-Ann’s perspective on this and I agree. Especially I would like to see more humor. Girls know they are being led’ in faihosn, TV and by marketing. But they do buy into it. Girls who don’t fit the mold are the ones in real danger discarding their own value. They want to belong’, and all this external input makes the community seem so much larger and populated by many more faihosnable girls than it is in reality.Another thing that has to be looked at is the successful date . Used to be measured by baseball first base, etc. Now if it’s not a home run on the first date, it is not a good relationship. If there is no kissing on the first date, there was no chemistry. I don’t understand how this standard changed, or how to modify the new standard.