The Farrah update and a message from her mother…

Yesterday, we launched a story about one of the survivors of the Aurora shootings, Farrah Soudani. I asked the Chivers to help raise money for her medical bills and, what will be, years of rehab and cosmetic surgeries. The goal was set at $100,000. In true Chive fashion you ignored the goal and raised $150,000 (and counting) instead.

Last evening, I was lucky enough to have a conference call with Farrah's mother, Heidi, and Victoria, the close family friend running Farrah's charity site while Heidi tends to her daughter.

Heidi gave me a message for the Chivers:

"John, saying thank you seems so hollow when expressing the depth of gratitude I feel for what the Chive community has done for my daughter.

After chatting for a while Heidi told me something. You could tell it had been a long day for both mother and daughter, Farrah's recent operations had taken an emotional and physical toll.

"Farrah has had a rough day today, she slept a lot. Farrah only spoke once. You won't believe what she said, John. She expressed compassion for the madman who did these things to her. She wondered if he was abused, if nobody cared for him? My daughter forgave him. That's how strong she is."

Farrah’s GoFundMe fundraising site was featured last night on NBC’s Rock Center with Brian Williams last night. The topic was the skyrocketing cost of good medicine how victims of the Aurora attacks are turning to the internet for help.

There was also an uninformed article published by NBC I’ve been asked about. The article involves the two separate websites that were created to help Farrah, one by the father’s side of the family, and one by the mother’s side, Heidi, which was officially set up by Victoria Albright, Heidi’s best friend.

I was aware of both sites before I launched the campaign and based on the mother’s blessing and wishes, I chose to go with Victoria and Heidi, and I’m really glad I did.

Since I launched the campaign you may have noticed one of the Soudani brothers have been spamming both theCHIVE and GoFundMe with some uninformed comments, primarily calling into question GoFundMe, which is strange because GoFundMe’s credentials are flawless.

They worked with Reddit to to raise $30,000 for a cancer-stricken patient with only 6 months to live and $75,0000 to help the parents of 3 girls with MPS. All the money went exactly where it was intended to go.

GoFundMe is the only crowdfunding site to receive a 5 star rating by Crowdsourcing.

This money has a national spotlight on it and professionals watching after it. We’re working with GoFundMe directly as well as the family to make sure every penny goes to Farrah, because, of course it will. Vicoria Albright is a kind-hearted grandmother who cares only for the wellbeing of Farrah right now.

I also believe that, when it comes to Charity, you should always keep it positive. Sometimes doing the right thing isn’t easy. Certainly both sides of the family are under a tremendous amount of stress and my thoughts and prayers go out to both of them. But this is about Farrah. And you can’t stand idly by and wait to help somebody, or worse, wait for somebody else to do it for you. That’s not how I was raised. At the end of the day you take the best information at hand and you call the play.

Be proud of yourselves today, Chivers. You’ve helped a girl when she needed it the most.

Donate to Farrah right here.

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    Actually the brother as well as the rest of the family are very grateful for all the support and are eternally grateful to this. There is a larger issue at hand and they will be happy to share it when it is finally resolved. The family is fighting for all of you on your behalf to respect the gifts that were given and guarantee that no money is diverted and 100% goes to Farrah as per your donation giving. The family will be happy once that is set in stone and the trust which they have chosen to set up after the fact to secure Farrah the money that you all have been so generous to give and put under a professional trustee and making sure all family members including the ones that set up the family trust can never have access to the monies of either one. I am sure that even such a worthy cause as this will somehow be distorted by a few since the truth still needs to come to light but I hope when that day comes that the family will receive some vindication from the same people that have unknowingly chosen to desecrate them without the facts. Ultimately the choice is yours but you guys totally rock and are an amazing bunch of people. Thank you from a family member that is not allowing their emotions dictate their words. I thought it might be time to state it.

    • RRRRR

      One more point is the family has zero concern on where the money is donated through as long as anyone utilizing Farrah's name to raise money legally guarantees that ALL proceeds go to the intended benefactor.

      We will also like to point out that we did plug The Chive in our statements although the media edits the way it chooses. We also have no issue with gofundme although direct donation would be a better option and we absolutely have no issue with Victoria. Joe Grimes who commented above me is absolutely correct in what he said.

  • Mike's Aunt

    Hello Chivers! Again, thanks to all who have sent donations, prayers, and well-wishes to my nephew Mike White and his girlfriend Farrah Soudani. With your help, nearly $17,000 has been raised for Mike and we are all so grateful. I wanted to make you aware that his donation site, http://www.gofundme.wa2ko, will be taken down soon and the funds given to Mike, so if you wanted to still make a donation to assist in his on-going medical care, there's still time. Funds are also continuing to be collected at Bank of the West on his behalf in CO. Thank you all so very much!

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