So why don’t more women make the first move? One theory is that women are inundated with messages, and they don’t even need to do anything other than have a picture and a pulse. The more attractive you are, the more attention you get. That’s pretty obvious.
The chart above outlines that the more messages the men send, they get a fairly decent return, but they they get bolstered with confidence and message more.
Women, on the other hand, just spend time filtering out the creepy from the possibilities. Realistically, they know that the messages will keep coming, and the keep on roaming the site to find someone that catches their fancy.