Bottom line —
Guys: if you want to show some skin online, then go for it.
Women: if you want to show some skin online, then go for it.
Everybody: quit hating on each other for things that you do yourself. Actually, quit hating on each other in general about how we dress. What are we, fucking puritans? Get over it. There are genocides and shit happening.
Bonus pro tip for the guys: If you’re in good shape and want prospective mates to know it, then by all means, post a shirtless pic. But don’t make it a selfie. Even if you’re standing by yourself next to a body of water and you clearly asked your friend to take the pic because you were feeling yourself, that’s ok. But the minute you snap that shirtless pic yourself, it comes off as vain. Is that a pretty stupid standard? Yes. But I don’t make the rules.