“I had a client who, it turns out, was my first repeat request. I was excited that I was finally starting to build clientele! When I greeted him in reception, I felt like something was off. He was talking loudly and asking if I remembered him (I didn’t, really. I was a little vague). On our way to the room I asked him what he wanted to focus on in his session. “My bum” was his reply.
In the intake he kept saying he wanted his “bum” worked, and his belly rubbed (I told him I don’t to that). He also insisted there would be a great tip for me if I “took care of him”. I asked him to clarify what he meant by all this, but he remained vague. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, I didn’t want to end the session when he technically hadn’t propositioned me- but I had a really bad feeling.
About a minute into the massage he asked me to remove his blankets. I told him that wasn’t possible, as we needed to maintain a professional boundary. He threw them off anyway, and for a moment was laying there face down and totally naked… And that was my official cue to throw the creep out!
It’s nice to be able to laugh about these things now, but the truth is it was really upsetting. Being alone in a room with a strange naked man who wants you to play with his ass is not as cool as it sounds.” – triknic