I have never been engaged but there is a huge amount of pressure when it comes to choosing an engagement ring. The ring you pick is something that she is going to have to look at and love for the rest of her life.
A woman in the r/relationships subreddit shared a story of her engagement along with her ring — which she hated. The woman was looking for advice on how to break her feelings about the ring to her fiancé. The original post was removed but a Twitter user saved screenshots of the thread including the photo of the ring.