What do Tom Cruise and porn have in common? Possibly a lot, but what I’m thinking of is that they’ve both built up some unrealistic expectations of what an orgy is like. Eyes Wide Shut gave this classy and elegant idea to the affair (minus the rituals and murder and secret society stuff). Porn, on the other hand, definitely not as classy, but makes us think that everyone is on the same page and it all goes smoothly without any hiccups or bumps in the road.
Now, I don’t have any first hand experience here, but some people who do shared their experiences of orgies, and they’re not always pretty.