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Being a swinger. The idea of a ton of novel sex sounds great but it doesn’t really work that way. You have to spend all your time looking for people to hook up. Get connected enough that a meet up can get scheduled. More scheduling. Crappy sex with strangers you may or may not really find attractive. Awkward emotional stuff to ‘ work through’ with your partner. Oh yeah and your partner is having sex with people ypu may find simply awful. In the end it’s all logistics and embarrassing situations. -@zeppelinonnpr