So when I was in Sex Ed I asked “well a males penis gets bigger when it’s aroused, does anything on a woman get bigger?” My teacher, god bless her, said “well…yes. So…when a woman gets aroused…their…well…I don’t know how to explain it…their…ya know what, never mind..”
That was it. So I was in my own head on WTF she was talking about. Fast forward years later and when I’m fumbling through my first guy/girl thing I’m just waiting for something on this female to get bigger. It was like handling a bomb.