Dating is nothing like it used to be. Men don’t pursue a woman for weeks and then pick her up at the door for a steak dinner. They match on Bumble and then uber to meet up at a casual bar. But frankly, we’re getting laid more than our grandparents ever were, so who’s really winning? As long as you know the unwritten code of dating apps, it’s easy to navigate and find someone looking for the same thing as you, whether that be a hookup or a wife.