Most people born around my time (1984) and younger have grown up in a world that tends to illustrate love as a magical connection & a spark that hits us all like an avalanche. Disney movies preach of love at first sight and knowing the minute you see another person that they are your one true love. Seriously, how much did Ariel know about Prince Eric before she damn near sold her soul just for a shot at wooing him? Sure it worked out, but my God, pump the breaks, girl. Maybe start with meeting the guy first before potentially condemning yourself for all eternity. I digress.