This is a thing that I feel is as important as religion. Discuss this in the dating phase. It is something that can leave someone feeling like they are not enough for their partner, and that it’s not good nor will it bring more sex into the relationship. I say put it out there, in the dating phase, and if it is addressed properly it will be fine. If porn is important to you, let it be known, and if your partner is willing to be eased into it, get online and start looking together. Start slowly and gradually build into different types of scenes. This may not be something you put on your Match.com profile, but it is a sexual part of you and all sexual needs are important. So be real with who you are and what you like when you are dating. If she can’t handle it, then she can’t handle you!