You don’t need to be a marriage or wedding expert to know that there are certain things that are expected when it comes to planning a wedding. You need to talk venues, guest lists, food and most importantly, the dress/tux situation. And while the serious conversations take place between the engagement and the actual date, the reality is, you should already have a sense of all this shit before you even pop the question or say yes. Cause if you get to this point, and there are huge surprises and misunderstandings like this, then you’re well and truly fucked.
Like this dude in the following Reddit Am I the Asshole? thread. Not only did he ask his fiancee to cheap out on her dress, the then took to the internet to ask their opinion. Then ignored it.
He deserves to fly solo for the rest of his life.